Puppies need social interaction, physical exercise, and mental stimulation – just like children do – in order to grow up to be healthy and well adjusted. When these needs are not met, many behaviour problems can develop.
How much daily social time does a puppy need? A good rule of thumb is that a puppy should spend at least half his waking hours each day interacting with other people and dogs, and he should spend twice as much time with people as he does with dogs. Like humans, most dogs enjoy a mix of old friends and new encounters – so make sure your pup meets at least one new person or dog each day. Allowing your puppy regular access to his familiar people friends and well mannered doggie buddies as well as the chance to meet new well mannered dogs will increase the chances of him being socially content and well adjusted.
Your puppy’s brain and body BOTH need lots of exercise. Walks on leash practising focus/attention, sit at sides, and recall are not always physically exerting, but they do provide a lot of mental stimulation. Working on obedience skills requires lots of doggy concentration, and your puppy will love the mental challenge of figuring out new things. Swimming, playing tug and fetch, and playing with other dogs are good brain AND body work-outs. Make sure you exercise your puppy’s brain AND body each day.
It is normal for puppies to nip like little sharks – this sometimes earns them the nickname “jaws on paws”. Puppies use their mouths to play and explore, in just the way that we use our hands. So if you don’t want puppy to play with you with his mouth, don’t play with him with your hands. Use a toy instead. Hands are for calm handling!
Responding properly to puppy nipping is very important. One technique used to address this issue is to yelp “Yiikes” when your puppy gives you one of his hardest bites, then direct him towards a chew toy to sink his teeth into. Yelping is not the same thing as scolding. Yelping gets your puppy’s attention so that he disengages from your hand, ankle, etc. Yelping lets the puppy know that the bite hurts, and will help teach him to bite more softly if you respond with quiet praise when he does disengage. This feedback, combined with similar feedback from other puppies helps your puppy to develop an “inhibited bite”. Bite inhibition allows an adult dog to bite with minimal or no damage, and is essential for a safe pet. When your puppy no longer bites hard, then use the same training technique for his medium, and then even for his soft bites – until he only mouths you verrrry gently.
Some puppies get excited when they hear a yelp – instead of easing off they bite again even harder. If your puppy does this then throw this technique out the window and try technique #2. The instant your puppy puts his mouth on you, immediately stop all movement until he disengages, offer him a quiet “good dog”, practice a few quiet sits and drops with a lot of praise, then go about your business. If your puppy is in a playful mood, play a game of tug or fetch, then put him in his pen or crate with a chew toy filled with some of his daily food and leave him to it. If you do not have time for interaction, skip the play and go straight to the pen/crate and chew toy.
Every puppy needs rules. Before your puppy can learn the rules, the whole house needs to agree on what they are. These rules should be the same ones you would have in place for an adult dog. Rules should apply only to behaviours that are not emotional reactions. Reactions like fear and aggression need a whole different training approach!
For instance, if your puppy jumps up to get the cookie in your hand you can say “Too bad” and put the cookie back in the jar. If he tries to bolt out of the car towards the dog park without permission, you can cancel his visit to the park altogether. Consequences must be immediate and consistent, and not frightening or painful.
Don’t wait for inappropriate behaviors to happen! Manage your puppy’s environment form the beginning so he does not have the opportunity or the access to learn behaviors that may seem cute and harmless at first, but that will become inappropriate, annoying or even dangerous when he gets older, bigger and more confident. Examples include jumping on people for attention, bolting out the front door, getting on the furniture, and pulling you all the way to the park.
Puppies will want to pee and poop wherever they have done so before. Your job is to make sure your puppy learns to prefer the outdoors as a toilet – not your carpets!
To successfully housetrain your puppy, you need to know how long she can hold for between pees. A puppy can usually hold her urine and faeces for as many hours as her age in months plus one, during the day, and 1.5 times that length overnight. Take your puppy’s age in months, add one, and that is how many hours she can hold for during the day. Multiply that number by 1.5 and that is how many hours she can hold for overnight.
Whenever you are unable to supervise your puppy with 100% attention, you need to place her in either a short-term or long-term enclosed area.
Your puppy can be placed in a short-term area such as a crate if she will be there for less than her holding limit. The purpose of the crate is to keep her out of trouble while you are unable to supervise her, and to help you housetrain her. The crate should be just big enough for her to be able to lie down on her side with outstretched limbs, stand up, and turn around easily. It should not be so big that she thinks there is enough space for a bedroom and for a toilet area! When you let her out of her crate you can bring her straight outdoors and reward her with a couple of treats, praise and 2 minutes of interaction for doing her business in the right place. A crate is appropriate to use as a sleeping area, in the car, when you are getting ready for work, when you have a sit-down tea for your boss, etc. Because your puppy may find herself confined to a crate when she is at the vets or at the boarding facility, conditioning her to the crate at a young age will help to minimize the stress associated with these situations!
For longer periods of time, a bigger area with non-absorbent flooring, such as a bathroom, kitchen, or utility room, is needed. The long-term area should have a bed or open crate at one end, and a strip of sod or astro turf in a large cat tray at the opposite end. Your puppy will naturally want to eliminate as far as possible from her bed. If the space you use for long- term confinement happens to have a door that leads to the outdoors, then place the toilet area near that door. This way, your puppy’s toilet area is as close as possible to where she should ultimately be heading to do her business. Fresh water and stuffed chew toys should also be plentiful, and should be placed near her bed. Long term areas are appropriate to use when you go to work.
Puppies will naturally have the urge to eliminate after a nap, a meal, a drink, exercise, excitement, or time spent in a puppy pen, crate, or long-term area. Give your puppy the opportunity to do her business outdoors at these times. When your puppy does her business in the right place offer her a treat and a short game or a walk. This will speed up her housetraining.
Punishing a puppy for housesoiling during and after it has happened is abuse, not training. This is because your puppy is engaging in absolutely normal behavior and will therefore not understand what all the fuss and emotion is about, and also because punishment does not give the puppy any useful information such what she should be doing instead. Give your puppy the chance to get it right by teaching and rewarding her for doing the right thing rather than punishing her for doing the wrong thing. If you catch your puppy about to pee or poop in the wrong place just swiftly scoop her up to the outdoors to continue.
Remember, if your puppy makes a mistake, it is strictly a reflection of your teaching abilities.
Dogs need to chew and they need jobs, so making them work for their food keeps their jaws exercised and their mind engaged – which helps keep them safe, happy and out of trouble. Chew toys should be safe, appealing, and virtually indestructible. Chew toys can be stuffed with daily meals or healthy treats to increase their appeal.
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It is normal for dogs to guard their food, toys or bed from people – but it is not safe. Without preventative training, resource guarding from people may develop. If your puppy or dog already displays guarding behaviour (stiffening, growling, snarling) you will need training guidance from a qualified dog trainer or animal behaviourist.
Preventing a guarding problem is much easier, and much safer than fixing one. You can only prevent resource guarding in early puppyhood (until about 18 weeks of age) – so get started now! Do these exercises once a day until he is one year old, then once a week throughout his lifetime.
Note: only follow these steps with a young puppy (< 12 weeks of age) that has never lifted his lip, backed away, snarled or snapped at a person or other animal if that person or animal has approached when the puppy has been in possession of food or a toy or other object! If this is the case, consult with one of the qualified trainers at Paw Prints Pet Training.
The following steps are intended strictly for use by adults; children under the age of 15 should not participate.
Note: these guarding exercises are aimed at preventing guarding from people. Guarding from other dogs or pets requires intervention if it causes any fighting, stress, fear, or physical damage. In order to curb guarding from other animals you would need to consult with one of the qualified trainers at Paw Prints Pet Training.
We want our pet dogs to be comfortable around dogs and people, and to be relaxed about handling and grooming, so that these things are not scary or unpleasant. Scared dogs bite, and scared dogs live a very stressful life, so please do not let your puppy grow up to be a scared dog!
The time to get your puppy used to all of these things is now – after he is 3 months old, it will be much harder to get him to relax about things he might find scary. Do the handling activities listed below, making sure that he is introduced to new experiences gradually, and that he gets lots of praise and treats.

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